Breathe
By Edelmira Cárdenas
I once mentioned that "everyone has the sex they work for" and I still think that's absolutely true. Because to a large extent, what we find in sex is what we are looking for. If we have little is because perhaps little is sought, if we find little pleasure is that it could be that we want it very easy and all given. There will even be (and they are few), those who say they are satisfied with their sex life and that it is perfect; the only thing I would say to those who say such a thing is that developing an area means developing myself as a person and for that it is necessary to explore, but it is up to each person... The "seek more" is a suggestion because it is evident that the treasure of pleasure is excellent for those who find it, but in no way is it an imposition that if it is not respected would be the end of your world... only of the sexual perhaps. But is it good to seek more pleasure? when is it advisable to stay as I am or where I am?
We must clarify that it is always good to seek more pleasure, what is perhaps not good in relationships is to think that whoever wants to have more pleasure must have more sex, equation one of sex: the number of in and out in bed is not proportional to the greatness of satisfaction, because pleasure does not depend on how much is done, but on how. Therefore, we must always strive for more pleasure, and we are not going to go out of our way to generate endless sexual occasions in everyday life, but those that do come, we must live them well and to the fullest. And the question is, does the sex I currently practice make me fulfilled, am I a satisfied person?
