Breathe
By Edelmira Cárdenas
There are times when we turn the sexual routine into a tradition in which chance and the "good fortune" of events are more important than the real awareness of feeling the desire and wanting to consummate it without further ado. For some this will be excellent: -we have sex when we can, not when we want to-, they will tell me. But what about those couples who often seem to be experts in disagreeing in order to have sex, either he wants to have sex and you don't, or you want to have sex but now your partner doesn't feel like it. It would seem that the "tradition" of chance is assimilated more as a sententious imposition of destiny than an exciting roulette of erotic luck. And now comes the million-dollar question: how do we reach an agreement?
If the thing is that there is balance and harmony at the time of sexual pleasure between two, the first thing is dialogue, what is happening to us? In a few words: if there is or you think there may be a problem in the relationship, the first step is to identify it and then decide how to address it. A good point is to know that the problem is usually never sex, although it may seem that way to us. Sexual problems" are only a manifestation of a deeper, real problem (in the vast majority of cases).
